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Tuesday, August 29, 2006

"Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus"
- John Gray

Let's talk about a matter which is very close to most of us - Relationships. Well, let us limit the scope to BGR types. Haha. To get the topic straight, Im not a Despo nor am I a sick pervert who is gay. I just feel that currently, Ive reached to a stage where Im ready for another relationship. However, Im looking for a relationship which is a lasting one. Yes, you didnt get me wrong. This relationship which im looking for, Im looking at the end which is marriage. That's why many of my male friends have been asking me, "Lit, Why you are so picky? Why you didnt go and hook any girls in the Uni and all?" Well, that's because Ive yet to come across anyone that can really interest me. Besides, I really feel I've gone beyond the physical stage. Ok..not totally. I mean, my expectation for a partner is pretty low. I don't expect her to be as sexy as Jessica Alba, as pretty as Kate Beckinsale or be as elegant as Julia Roberts. All I ask for is that we are able to communicate well and be understanding to each other. Hahaha.. Some people might think that's a pretty high expectation already.

Let me put it in this way, what I mean by communication is not just your everyday trashy talking, eg "Ni hao ma??" Communication in this sense means, being able to relate whatever you are feeling to me. Besides, the person Im looking for must be able to converse with me and be a little well read. Hahaha, I guess the downside to this kind of relationship is that my partner suddenly becomes too smart and may find me stupid.

Nevertheless, from the past relationships I have, Ive learnt that communication plays a really important part. It is also through the lack of communication that many couples split up, including mine. That's why, I emphasise alot on communication.
Anyway, wish me luck as I wait patiently for my lady in white to arrive.

10:06 PM;

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